Can Men and Women Love Each Other? False Lovemaking Ideals

Mon, 11 Jan 2016
By Dave O.


Can men and women love each other?

Let’s observe.

There is an irresistible positive charge between males and females. When the positive charge increases, as it invariably does, man and woman are pulled together and typically sex results. At any point the positive charge can reverse. When the charge is zero, there is neutrality. Negative charge causes aversion. A couple can be both attracted and repulsed at the same time.



The purpose of coupling is not only to further the human species. Some couples do not have sex. When sex is pursued it assumes a variety of forms of which actual procreation is a relatively rare outcome. Some women never experience any kind of orgasm and do not seek it. Men and women sometimes have sexual contact that does not result in orgasm or ejaculation and they are satisfied.

Often when men and women have sex they are not moved by energy but by ideas about how to perform - sex is part chore, part pleasure. They are unsure if they are fulfilling their partner and they feel unsatisfied in themselves. Clearly something is missing from their lovemaking because they never achieve its elusive ideal.

The problem is that they have acquired false ideas about lovemaking and do not know each other or their own self. Their physically skillful  lovemaking is a fumble towards the unknown, but instead of embracing uncertainty  they hide it  behind sexual gymnastics that lack true feeling.

Profuse sweating, groaning and trembling may create an intense  experience that draws a couple physically closer but not necessarily to a deeper, more profound connection. Full appreciation evades the couple. In frustration they return to the bedroom repeatedly, trying to find each other and failing. Eventually they do not even visit the bedroom and feel utter failures in their lives and their relationship.

It is vital to understand that a man and woman are trying to explore each other, so the vital question is: How can they find each other?

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